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Thursday, February 09, 2012

SOME THINGS ARE JUST SO FUNNY..

...like the way some people act when they get a position or elevated to a certain level of power.

...like the way things that were so normal for you appears weird to somebody and what is normal for them is weird for you.



...like how much you strive to be liked by somebody to the point of changing yourself without noticing that a million other people likes you the way you are.



... like how your former friends change in just a matter of a few months.


...like how you realized that never really were your friends.

...like movie reruns makes you laugh when the very same movie irritated you when it premiered before.

It's funny how you consider yourself made of gold and then allow others to treat you like trash.
It's funny to see those people who liked stepping on you before eating everything they ever said about you.
It's even funnier to see those people fighting to get your attention because you were better than they are now.

Life is full of funny moments. Funny in a strange sort of way.

Pretend to be deaf

When you don't like what other people say about you, pretend to be deaf. When you know that what they are saying will not help you in anyway, pretend to be deaf. If you know that what people around you is saying will only ruin you, pretend to be deaf.

Listen only when you know that what they are saying can help you. Listen only when you know that what they are saying will turn you into a better person. Listen only when you know that they are speaking with sense.

If you listen to everything that people say about you, you'll lose your sanity. Different people will tell you different things. People will say a lot of things about you, most of the times contradicting opinion of you. If you think what they are saying is not true, then why bother with them? Don't mind the rumors, who cares what other people say about you? You know yourself better than them.

Remember that however they describe you doesn't matter, you know what is true from what is not. Their perception of you will only be validated if you act the way they expect you to act. If they say you're a bitch and you start acting like one, then of course, you became what they expect you to be.

But the question is, are you what they say you are?If you know you are not, then pretend to be deaf. You're better off without listening to those people. You can live without them you know.

10 SIMPLE THINGS YOU MAY WANT TO CONSIDER


You will only know what a person really is by the way he faces criticisms hurled at him. A person who gracefully accepts criticisms and learns from it is more intelligent and worth respecting than those who never wants to hear their faults pointed out.

Fact one: You cannot mold people in your hands. You may influence them but you can never force them to fit in a molder that doesn't fit them.


Fact two: A person's behavior is influenced by his upbringing, his environment, his emotions, experiences and state of mind (and that's about less than half of all the things that could affect behavior). The way you act and react speaks a lot of the kind of breeding you have. You cannot expect a person to react the way you would react in a situation because the factors that affects you does not necessarily affect them.



Fact three: You cannot judge a person based on one incident for reasons stated above.

Fact four: Each individual deals with their problems in their own different way. Don't expect them to behave like you do.


Fact five: You cannot expect understanding and respect from people you don't try to understand and respect.





Fact six: Action speaks louder than words.



Fact seven: Its always irritating and hurtful to hear the truth but sometimes, you just have to deal with the harshness of life.



Fact eight: It will only hurt if it hits.

Fact nine: A tiny crack can break even the strongest shield.


Fact 10: There is such a thing as GROW UP.